No, not really. All you have had to be was an active member of the forum for the last few years to know about it.
No, ofc not - and i think JC didn't remember that he posted it himself, not before you mentioned it.
Ok, let's get some things straight here.
During that private talk Jamira referred to in his post w/ the link, we exchanged RL names and yes, I gave him my website address. For the record, he told half-truths and lies about that conversation in order to paint me in as bad a light as possible. His post was clearly meant as an attack on me. I
guarantee you, safara, that Jamira did NOT know about that link nor my personal details before our private discussion, unless he lied to me.
Hard to believe that such a man is judge/moderator of this forum ...
This was said as if to insinuate someone who made a site like mine had no business being a moderator. Skipping the fact that my site was ALL about creating discussions on difficult topics.
Yes, I knew about that link long ago, because when I saw Jamira's post, I double checked myself to see exactly what links I made to my personal info myself. In short, it was minimal, and I had to weigh his use of the link.
Just read his posts. He clearly used that link and our talk as a personal attack on me, simply because I refused to agree to have fake fights w/ him on the forum. Therefore, he's out.
I'm going to take it this is why the other mods never explain why the deleted a post or banned someone.
Maybe. However, I prefer to keep things as open as possible (setting aside issues of portraying someone as Hitler, of course.)
EDIT:
i dont see nothing in john capitals first post that says he came to the thread because of a complaint, that first post spells personal opinion from john capital.
I don't always state "hey, this was reported". In fact, it's more often I don't say it.
It was just in this case, I personally agreed w/ the objection.