Let me come at this another way.
Under my system
there are two ways you can disconnect.
1) Go to a nearby terminal/bed, and log off manually.
2) You are forced out of game by a DC or CTD.
under option one, the following will occur.
Your avatar vanishes, and still has your loot.
If the ship goes down, your avatar will appear in space with the dead ship, and you are lootable.
Logging back in will place you on the ship regardless of past events.
Under option two, the following will occur.
Your avatar does not vanish, and still has your loot
If the ship goes down, your avatar will appear in space with the dead ship, and you are lootable.
Logging in will place you at the first station the ship docked with after you disconnected, or if you have never docked, back on the ship.
The intent is to allow crew to stay with the ship while logged off, but to allow people that DC unexpectedly to not stay with the ship after their leg is complete. If they stay with the ship, their loot is in danger until you can get control of your avatar again, and that could take any amount of time.
Our systems are essentially the same, the only difference is that I'm treating avatars differently, instead of treating loot differently.
OR to address losing DCing crew, make it a simple check box when you get to the ship.
Would you like to stay with the ship in the event of a disconnect, or be dumped on the next station after your disconnect. Check one and move on.
Hell, you can even let them pick what planet they want dumped at in the event of a disconnect, assuming the ship has visited it. Otherwise, you appear back on the ship as normal.
Where do you get your attitude that everything John thinks is about his own gain?
I got it from being unable to make myself clear to the extent that I felt my points were being ignored or twisted, which is why I'm trying this from a different angle. I have a habit of being really wordy at times and expecting everyone to be able to keep up with me. I'm a writer on the side, I'm used to dealing with native english speakers, which allows me free use of metephors and other indirect forms of language. This is my error. Sorry about getting frustrated and assuming things.