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Guys I really have to say this with such a heavy heart, because a really good friend or who I thought was a friend has undoubtedly been a scammer
I lent him 1k PED's
What advice do you guys have for me, who are friends and how do I know how the difference. My experiance in this game with loot has been so terrible... But my friends kept me around and I have made so many good relationships and this game has such a great community but I never saw this one coming. Mound and Mounds of PEDs no hofs, now I am losing ped to friends, I am struggling to find a reason to stay.
How do we avoid these trust scams?
INFO: I know what I said is kinda harsh but I never spoke to him harshly or put any presure until today, it has been over 2 years and he still is making excesses why he cant pay me back. When he said 3 months I kind lost it and I regret treating him like that no matter the circumstance.
Don't lend high value items to anyone that doesn't have a proven history of borrowing from other people that can vouch for him... and try to get CLDs/AUDs as collateral...
He was in a soc that am best friends with the Soc Leader, I have lent almost everyone in that soc ul get such as CAly Trek MK I T7 + Dante and loads of items and never had one issue.
I never saw this coming this guy had over 30k in gear when I lent him the ped because he needed badly. Really got blind sided.
To date after 4 years in EU and passing 100 or thousands of PED in gear value I never have been shorted 1 ped from anyone. This is really disheartinging
A lot of people are saying don't trust people, dont lend gear or peds.
I think it's important to trust people but to recognise that there is an element of risk in giving your trust and that sometimes trust will be betrayed.
In game there is a very small number of people I will lend gear to and I always think about what my real world dollar loss will be if things go sour. Some of these people I know out of game and others I know well enough to be confident that they value their reputation and are unlikey to blow that for a hundred dollars or so.
Others I won't lend to even though I like them. I just don't know them well enough to do any reasonable risk assessment.
So basicly once you turn money in to peds, it's not money in the eyes of police.
Don't lend ANYTHING to anyone EVER...Forget about collateral... In Mindark's Eyes, All Trades are Final, so there is no such thing as lending. If you do collect collateral and tomorrow the markup on the stuff is tenfold times higher than the collateral you collected, there's nothing Mindark or anyone else can do to help you get what you 'sold' back.
Really? What about the guy who got 100s CLDs for price of 1 back when the MA guy were selling for 1150?
I wish they could say all trades are final
Its just sad that it has to be that way, when a friend needs help you shouldnt be scared ot help them...
But seems you have to be
He asked me too back at that time...
I'm in same situation like you kull, I loaned 18k to a known player but haven't got it back and yes it was without any collat just his good rep was enough. Few months later nothing so I thought i was scammed. Yeye gotta move on and just didn't think much of it. But to my luck he contacted me way later and said sorry blabla and will pay in this coming summer. So we shouldn't call anyone scammer right away as we dunno whats with their RL. But in ur case, 2 years... Yeah its obvious.
This needs doing.In these threads always someone comes up with a lending/renting system.
So here it goes:
Creating a loan:
-1 ped fee goes to Mindark ( the only way they will ever create something like this) looks like a similar window like trade, but left/right instead of top/down to avoid renting scams.
- Item goes left, right goes ped if a borrower is actually a renter
- no ped in the right window means you lend something out.
- lender sets time (hours, days)
lendier clicks accept, borrower clicks accept, both click are you really really absolutely sure confirm button
advantage:
- Mindark makes more money ( are you reading this MIndark?)
- no more threads like these
- because the system is left/right it won't be confused with regular trade
after the timer runs out, a message appears, your "mod merc" has returned to your inventory.
Simple: Don't trust. It's unfortunate what happened, but I almost don't even consider this a scam. It has been warned hundreds of times over the years as it's happened hundreds of times, don't lend someone anything you can't afford to lose. The same goes for RL but it's a much more important thing to remember in a RCE game.How do we avoid these trust scams?