Of course it is a game and you are a "stinkin" pirate, such career choice will inevitable increase the likely hood of getting some shit thrown at you. However I do think such comments say more about the person saying them, than who they are aimed at.
A great product of Entropia is all the wonderful new people you get to meet, but unfortunately a fair amount them will be those with a much lower opinion on what is appropriate, and what is not. Different cultures, different generations, different languages will all play a role in the outcome of what someone says in the heat of the moment. They may be a product of their environment, or simply an ass. Either way the only thing that matters is that whatever is said is not taken as a direct dig, but either noted for future reference when dealing with the individual, or solace taken in empathy towards an anger which must be at the very least uncomfortable to live with.
For example, the c word in Scotland is very common, and often used as a term of endearment. "come here you cheeky wee C**T" "Oh ya C**T that was nippy!" Neither of which are mean or offensive!
You "hurt" them with looting them, so they try to be as mean as they possibly can with words. Being openly female they take than line to try to offend you. I am sure it will be water off a ducks back, but I think the discussion is valid with what is appropriate and what is not.
I always presume such comments come from a 14 year old in their parents basement, who hasn't quite learned how to control ones anger. If I am wrong about that, then again it is much more telling about them. There is no point arguing back with such a mindset, nor allowing what they say to take hold.
I think comments from such a person would have little weight, as opposed to such a thing from someone who you trust and respect. In saying that, someone whom you trust and respect is unlikely to act in such a manner.
I was once called a stay at home mum who was bored and had to beg her husband for money in an attempt to insult me - Whilst I was on a business trip
it gave me a lot of insight into the individual making the comment
( who was also female ironically)