Cay
Guardian
- Joined
- May 17, 2005
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- Finland
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- Church of Lootius
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- Cayla Cay Mirgil
Avatar gender vs. irl gender dilemma
Hi made a new thread about this area of discussion, cause it actually handles more complex dilemma...
See, I have this friend...and YES I AM TALKING ABOUT A FRIEND HERE!!!
who is irl male. He made a female avatar for the most obvious reasons discussed in this forum earlier...and also because he wanted to see the opposite life for awhile. And he made RPG:in a female a way of art -I even was sold!
He then met a irl lesbian female in PE....they fell in love and now he is confused whether to tell her he is not actually a she.... He did not tell he was a he in the first place, cause he was rpg:in and in that time it did not matter...it started to matter AFTER their relationship went deeper.
Oh sigh I tried to tell him the longer he waits telling the worse the thing goes...
Anyone of you have had this kind of dilemma? Any advice??? How it went? And plz no joking this is really about actual irl feelings...my friend is very upset, ´cause he is afraid she might walk if she´d know...to tell or not to tell?
And NO I am not a lesbian, nor am I male....*you´d ask it anyways* I just am very worried about my friends stress level. Any words of courage?
Hi made a new thread about this area of discussion, cause it actually handles more complex dilemma...
See, I have this friend...and YES I AM TALKING ABOUT A FRIEND HERE!!!
who is irl male. He made a female avatar for the most obvious reasons discussed in this forum earlier...and also because he wanted to see the opposite life for awhile. And he made RPG:in a female a way of art -I even was sold!
He then met a irl lesbian female in PE....they fell in love and now he is confused whether to tell her he is not actually a she.... He did not tell he was a he in the first place, cause he was rpg:in and in that time it did not matter...it started to matter AFTER their relationship went deeper.
Oh sigh I tried to tell him the longer he waits telling the worse the thing goes...
Anyone of you have had this kind of dilemma? Any advice??? How it went? And plz no joking this is really about actual irl feelings...my friend is very upset, ´cause he is afraid she might walk if she´d know...to tell or not to tell?
And NO I am not a lesbian, nor am I male....*you´d ask it anyways* I just am very worried about my friends stress level. Any words of courage?
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