While space and PVP may not bring a sense of enjoyment to some, it does for others. Neither party holds the high ground. The joy of EU is there is room for us all to enjoy our personal preferences.
Decrying others because it is not your preference is therefore unnecessary. If you don't like an aspect of the game then go play the bits you do like, and leave the rest for others to enjoy.
As regards space and learning the ropes, best to join a reputable group in space and then when things (hopefully change as MA promised) you will be ready for it