So I have introduced the game to a few friends and family. This is my routine.
If it comes up in casual conversation such as I play "mario brothers" what game(s) do you play. Or, that game looks cool, what is it? I usually respond with. Its a mmo game you know kind of like WOW
yes I go there lol.
If I am actually trying to show EU to someone I think might enjoy it or actually play. I try to hit these points in conversation before they ever touch the game themselves. usually while I play, and they watch, or while the game DL and installs.
1. its a small indie niche game, there are bugs, crashes and undeveloped content.
2. The game has been around about a decade, has had continual growth.
3. it has an old school mmo feel to it, its simple to play but complex to "master".
4. your noobie months will be the most frustrating, and most prone to expensive mistakes, be patient and make some friends, get a soc, leave it and get another soc, keep changing soc's making friends til you find one you don't want to leave. the key here is get some people you can reach out to when you need assistance (NO NOT I AM BROKE GIVE ME STUFF) assistance, those type of players are not well received usually.
5. game is free to log in, like a bar is free to walk into. you might even find some free peanuts, but the girls, booze, food, hell even the music on the jukebox....is going to cost you. Everything in EU costs $$$
6. EU is real cash based, you deposit money into the game, in return you get game currency at a fixed rate. you can through a complex system of banking voodoo, after paying a large service charge withdraw your game currency back into us dollars. which will after many moons of time be deposited into your bank account.
7. you can technically make money in the game if you work hard invest right and spend right..but you can also spend as much as your willing to deposit, on play toys and just play. There are even people who never deposit and just play on the peanuts, or "trade up" which is how I started.
8. The game changes at the whims of the developers, often resulting in a personal $ loss to some groups of players. markets shift, items come and go or change. Growth comes with changes, EU always changing.
9. basically imo pay to play the game, but don't spend more than your willing to lose. at least for your first year in game take it slow read, talk to people, ask questions, learn. its a complex world, with few official statements of how things work, full of fish and sharks (the players that is).
10. EU is a game of years not months. plan to play for many years, though you can take a 2 year break and and not be penalized like in some games.
IMO if you can accept all the above, you might be a EU player. if you cant accept it, you will not enjoy your EU experience. But your millage may vary give it a shot see what you think, Welcome to EU