Fanan
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Hello guys!
I post here to ask for advice.
I have a very old friend that keeps me asking for money! Almost every time we meet he ask me for money. We have great fun together and I enjoy a lot to hanging out with him but for more than 12 years that we know each other, I probably lent him more than ten thousands of dollars I believe, yes 10.000 USD, and he only paid me back once and only a part of it, that was back in 2013. Eight years ago, that's a lot of time.
I don't trust him much anymore all this time we know each other and lending him money almost every month some times more than one time per month and he only paid me back once and it was like only 1/3 of the total that I lent him.
Today we meet again and after two or so hours with him, he already asked me for more than 40 USD. I don't wanna damage our relation but it's getting to a point where I don't trust him anymore and I really think he will never return not even close to 50% of the total of money that I lent him. What should I do? To continue to trust him blindly and keep putting even more money on his hands or call it "enough" and break this parasitism relation?
I post here to ask for advice.
I have a very old friend that keeps me asking for money! Almost every time we meet he ask me for money. We have great fun together and I enjoy a lot to hanging out with him but for more than 12 years that we know each other, I probably lent him more than ten thousands of dollars I believe, yes 10.000 USD, and he only paid me back once and only a part of it, that was back in 2013. Eight years ago, that's a lot of time.
I don't trust him much anymore all this time we know each other and lending him money almost every month some times more than one time per month and he only paid me back once and it was like only 1/3 of the total that I lent him.
Today we meet again and after two or so hours with him, he already asked me for more than 40 USD. I don't wanna damage our relation but it's getting to a point where I don't trust him anymore and I really think he will never return not even close to 50% of the total of money that I lent him. What should I do? To continue to trust him blindly and keep putting even more money on his hands or call it "enough" and break this parasitism relation?