I doubt anything I say won't be taken the wrong way, but I'll try for the sake of any outsiders/regular players wondering what the hell is going on.
The accusations on this stretch way further than one or two pvp societies. The "abductors" list spreads far and wide, including in societies of those making accusations here. I guess the point I am trying to make is by all means hold an opinion on whether you agree with it or not, but do not tar all with the same brush nor believe some are holier than thou.