Yes updates are another source of anxiety testing a persons patience. I gave up waiting for Entropia servers so I go straight to any alternative source that is posted in forum at the time. Although I still can't figure out how 112kb/s equates with a 1.5Mb download speed.
I have had 350 - 500kb/s but that seems to be a thing of the past. Even using a torrent gets me the same result. I test my D/L speed at the time and it is like 1.2Mb or above. So I just set it to download while I'm asleep now. Perhaps it's my ISP choking it by file recognition but a lot of others. And those unfortunate souls who having to delete the whole installation and download the client again to have the same problem once they have done that and use up their D/L limit in the process, well you got to feel for them don't you. Glad I keep a backup is all I can say.
Anyway that is a side issue I think is unrelated to time-outs but well worth a mention and a comment. The other thing lately is the number of times I get "Not Responding" before I am able to log in.