"Haha yeah will do Pip as soon as I find that webcam that im sure I have somewhere I was actually looking for that in the spare room when I came across these NZ pics so gave up looking and posted them instead. When I get some recent pics ill throw them in my profile"
Ok, it seems my profile messages are 100% from females so I guess the hassling wont stop until I do as you say Im onto it now, might need a day or 2 to find a real life pic though but at least it gives you a while to prepare yourself for the horror