i dunno. it might be a little greasy, but a scam? hardly. what she does is bet.. she bets she can find enough people who assume things are as theyd like them.
if they had asked what the loot distribution was and were lied to, thats a scam, tho pretty weak.
due to the OPs sleepin at the switch, they didnt make any sort of arrangement as to how loot would be distributed. they said themself the warning signs were there, but ignored or unnoticed. and instead of suckin it up an learning they wanna blame someone else for their shortsightedness.
i just read a 3 page smear of someone who does nothing more then bank on human stupidi... errrr nature
you didnt get scammed, you got played for a fool. you got off easy as well, only a few oil. a wise man once said "if you cant spot the sucker at your table, its you"
i can almost understand wanting to warn people about it, and id be tempted, but no way would i admit to gettin played like that an expect any sympathy at all.