I'm a white woman. Let's do dinner, k?
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I'm female IG and IRL and also somewhere else. My avatar is called ultimababe... she has HUMUNGOUS TITS! She runs around in a black bra and black mini skirt weilding a samurai sword. She's filthy minded and has a mouth like a gutter. She's highly flammable...
All of these traits would normally point to the avatar being a shemale, however I'm not... so various other arguments saying "oh if so and so does/looks like this then it's a bloke" are moot.
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Also, on topicish... I don't think it's a good idea to force gender. I totally LOVE it every now and again when someone makes a forum post crying about getting their hearts torn wide by shims. It tickles me