All my best wishes to you Tamn (Earl), and though I can't buy anything right now I am happy to help in any way at all if I can, just not sure what I can do really.
I too went through something very similiar, different type of cancer, terminal diagnosis, and everything I had worked my whole life for gone in the fight to pay for extraordinary treatment so I could prove the prognosis wrong. I won, but, yes, now life is a start from scratch kind of situation, and like your family doing that in the current economic situation is a massive struggle.
You however have not yet had the time or chance to build your life being so young, and your general positive outlook and upbeat attitude that I have seen on this forum all along, give me hope that you will prove them wrong too. As a friend of mine said to me, just believe it.
As I write this however, something is brewing in the back of my mind. I will pm you later after I have had a think about it a bit more hon.